In a RelationSHIP or RelationSHIT

Many people like to put their status as in a relationship but does it mean they are happy in it or they are in a relationSHIT and in hell. If you manage to find someone who really loves you then you will enjoy it if not you will suffer. In some real cases the girlfriend is a total control freak and just wants to get her way, for example she only wants to watch Chinese movies and the guy likes English movies and the girl who is a terrible person do not want to go and watch it with the guy and not only that she is even worst and if the guy wants to go and watch it with his family members and friends she will also nag him and ask him not to do so, so do you think the guy is happy or not? Worst still she also dares to ask the guy not to buy or pack home any food for his parents and family members, this so called girl is really a nasty bitch, imagine dare to ask the guy to do so when I will say that even 99% of the whole world people's wife will surely dare not ask their husband not to buy food back for the husband parents or family members. Also she dare to ask the guy not to answer his parents phone calls and teaches him to lie all the time and the worst part is she is really very ugly and fat and she thinks she is so beautiful. Also she has a so called girlfriend who will come out and find her every weekend from the other size of the island which is very far away, so do you think this is a normal relationship? They will also always take very intimate photos together and go to tour together, so people are very sure that this girl is a bi sexual lesbian who can do it with both the male and female and she just find a guy to cover up that she is a lesbian. She also dare not go to certain public places with the guy and dare not wear couple T-Shirt in public with him locally and also she does not put that she is in a relationship in any of her social media, so it is so obvious that the girl is not into the guy and does not even like or love him and just using him to buy things and go for holidays, is just like a prostitute job except she does it in secret. So, do you think this type is called in a RelationSHIP or in a RelationSHIT? Your comments are highly appreciated.