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Marriage / Soul Mate / Just for company
If you are single and looking for someone, are you looking for just a marriage, a soul mate or just for company?
There are many people who just end up with someone who they don't really love, but just to find someone and to settle down, will this work?
Some people say yes but many say no because somehow, somewhere, sometime in the future you will become sick of that person and by then even worst still you will say oh my god, this person is not even the person who you really love, that is why in many cases many people ended up divorcing their partner.
So, for those people who are still single and still searching, I am telling you guys and girls out there please open your eyes widely and even more importantly open your heart bigger and make sure that the person who yor are with now is someone who you really love, or else the marriage will never work out. If that person is not the person who you realy love better break up with them early because sooner is better than later like the saying better be safe than sorry.
For those who are already married, well if you really found out that the person you are with now is not really the one you love, very sad to say there is only 2 way out, one is either you waste your life with them or break up with them, but this is solely based on how you feel and whether do you think you can still survive living with them for the rest of your life until you die or not.
So, for people who are still single and searcing please alwasy check with your heart before you commit into any relationship.
Finding a soul mate who you really love is better than just to find a company to settle down or just to get married because all your friends are already married, because do not think that they are married, that they are happy and that their marriage will last forever, because from many survey there are many people who got married just for the sake of getting married are now facing family problems and in many cases many have already got divorced.
Also, if you are single and you do not really love the person who is courting you now, it is better to tell them straight to their face before it is too late, because they are also cases, where the couple have been going out for many years and in the end the partner tell them that they have found their soul mate after 7 to 10 years and some partner cannot take it may commit suicide or even kill and destroy their partner, so beware of all this and feelings is something which is very dangerous and even more dangerous than fire so do not play with them.
Some may even say that if you cannot find the person who you really love than it is better to stay single forever rather than getting married to the wrong person and getting divorce later.
There are many people who just end up with someone who they don't really love, but just to find someone and to settle down, will this work?
Some people say yes but many say no because somehow, somewhere, sometime in the future you will become sick of that person and by then even worst still you will say oh my god, this person is not even the person who you really love, that is why in many cases many people ended up divorcing their partner.
So, for those people who are still single and still searching, I am telling you guys and girls out there please open your eyes widely and even more importantly open your heart bigger and make sure that the person who yor are with now is someone who you really love, or else the marriage will never work out. If that person is not the person who you realy love better break up with them early because sooner is better than later like the saying better be safe than sorry.
For those who are already married, well if you really found out that the person you are with now is not really the one you love, very sad to say there is only 2 way out, one is either you waste your life with them or break up with them, but this is solely based on how you feel and whether do you think you can still survive living with them for the rest of your life until you die or not.
So, for people who are still single and searcing please alwasy check with your heart before you commit into any relationship.
Finding a soul mate who you really love is better than just to find a company to settle down or just to get married because all your friends are already married, because do not think that they are married, that they are happy and that their marriage will last forever, because from many survey there are many people who got married just for the sake of getting married are now facing family problems and in many cases many have already got divorced.
Also, if you are single and you do not really love the person who is courting you now, it is better to tell them straight to their face before it is too late, because they are also cases, where the couple have been going out for many years and in the end the partner tell them that they have found their soul mate after 7 to 10 years and some partner cannot take it may commit suicide or even kill and destroy their partner, so beware of all this and feelings is something which is very dangerous and even more dangerous than fire so do not play with them.
Some may even say that if you cannot find the person who you really love than it is better to stay single forever rather than getting married to the wrong person and getting divorce later.
1 comment:
the purpose of marriage might be different for everyone, but the one thing is - being together =)
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